Build social relationships does not mean immediately ask someone about employment opportunities at Career Day. Most precise sense of the word, build social relationships is to make friends and communicate.
Family, friends, neighbors, colleagues, old and new are all factors in the social network of your relationship. Same for any object that you’re having an affair, and really cared about them.
Attentions – The key to building relationships
To have a good social relations, you must be considerate of others. This interest can be expressed in many different ways. For example, you remember birthdays, anniversaries other important friends, expressing appreciation for the successful friends gain or mailing thank them for introducing you to someone or help you work what.
Also, you should keep in regular contact with friends via email, social networks, phone and intimate gatherings. Each week, you should aim to email you to ask for a familiar person (or a friend who wants to establish relations) and calling at least once for another friend. Also, make friends for lunch appointment at least once per month, or simply drinking coffee. If you are not familiar with this, please write them on the priority list of things to do to remember.
Be the initiator of activities!
A great way to build social relationships that join the event. However, you invite people to join the intimate fun activities, rather than attending a formal event but useless features.
You can establish clubs reading enthusiasts, like cooking or a group walking in the company; colleagues have lunch or hold a company-wide promenade. You can also invite friends to the game, eat dinner or barbecue. Encourage each guest to the party go with a new friend. The initiation of such collective action will help you establish social relationships easily with no less fun.
Actively connect with people “in tune”
To actively participate in the activities is as important as initiators. Leverage your own preferences as well as a way to expand the relationship. For example, if you like golf, you do not invite acquaintances accompany that just came alone and then for three strangers to invite them to play. Every time, you have to add 3 new friends. If you like making pottery or learn sign language (sign language), you join a course after work to have exposure to the “mate”. Certainly after the course, you will make friends with at least one or two people.
Also, exercise at the fitness center or engage in political activity – in local society are also the ideal way to communicate other and make friends. Also, do not forget to send emails to each of your visits to meet and invite them into your community network to easily keep in touch and build lasting relationships.
Become “bridge” credible
One of the best ways to become a good friend and a good etiquette is to become a “bridge” of the relationship. Instead of just focusing on the acquaintances and friends can help you out so, think whether you can help them how. Notice when someone tells you that they are looking to expand business operations to a certain industry or they are looking for personnel with specialized skills. Then you remember if anyone you know can help them? Has anyone close to you can grasp this opportunity?
A bridge like that, you probably will not see the benefits immediately for yourself and your career aspirations. But until there is the need, you will clearly see the value of social networks wide.