In communication skills, skills greeted very important role to impress initially for opponents. If folk have the “Pieces of betel begins the story” the skills greet act as “betel” So very necessary to make a successful communication.
1, For you have not introduced
him you are not introduced, the people you have to actively get acquainted. For as a young man to feel a girl in love and want to get familiar example. Or a marketing staff to meet a client never used. This time decided to greet a lot, this is one of the skills to communicate with strangers help you get a new relationship, a conversation or never. To greet successful, you should follow these steps:
For strangers that you are not being introduced, first you should seek to reach them with the main road main road, instead of sneaking stealthily will make others secretly by antipathy. You should appear before them and approached with eyes and a smile. You must surely be the friendliness in her smile. Should just smile instead of laugh with strangers. Followed by proactive greeted by the simple social question. But the most simple greeting is “Hi you / he / she ….”.
Awaiting the response of the enemy
After take the greeting, you do not hurry to say anything else because your haste can make opponents fear. And where there is fear, your image in their eyes deteriorated a lot. Meanwhile, efforts to familiarize your will become meaningless. The enemy will be able to respond to you, but just follow the basic courtesy, but inwardly they quickly want to leave. So after greeting, you should wait for the response of the enemy and start a conversation.
Start the conversation
When starting a conversation, you notice the tell from the simple things, certain forward to close and go into the main story. New outset that guy invited the girl to go out, or instantly get a phone number is not a good way to start a relationship. You can talk about the weather today, about books that girls read about anything interesting is happening around them with speech and natural friendliness.
2, For users familiar, or who introduced
Compared with whom you are not familiar as on the greeting with referrals or acquaintances will be somewhat easier. Where acquaintance here that I want to mention not with relatives or friends – because for these people has no longer distance and sometimes greeting will lose intimacy inherent.
Select the appropriate behavior
for those of you already familiar but just stop at a glance, and the people you are introduced, to say hello, you should have appropriate manners when greeting. You should be open-minded, proactive smiled and behavior can be a friendly handshake from you. You should also know about the skills began to make an impression on the enemy from the handshake hello there.
While shaking hands with the enemy, you should not be silent, but should express feelings about the encounter itself through a social greeting. Depending on the object that you are exposed to the appropriate greeting. For example, “Nice to meet you” to peers that you have just been introduced, or “Long time no see you” to people you have known in the past. This way you not only must have sympathy with the enemy, but also to all those present around.
Find all threads talking
Of course you can not just say hello and then only, after greeting you need a topic to start a conversation. You can talk about the weather, about learning, about family, … depending on each object will have a different theme, avoid saying the only topic you understand that others are not.
3, Greetings in the business environment
Unlike the above two cases, greeting partner is not only express who you are, but also represent your business in the business environment. Therefore greeting affect your business story gets better or worse.
Appearance consistent with the business environment
Before greeting partner, you need to ensure that their appearance should be neat and nine cycles. Along with that is confident demeanor and friendly. Absolutely not greet business partners when you’re not ready for his appearance.
Hello under title
When greeting a colleague or close the business, you can simply say hello. No need to shake hands, just laugh and take greetings. Whereas, when greeting partner rank- and higher tool you should combine with gestures such as bowing or handshake.
Moreover, depending on the circumstances come together, but also not the same greeting. Such as when accidentally meet your greeting without too formal but not rude or facile. You can express surprise or joy of the encounter as “Hello, did not expect to see you here.”